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	<title>Comments on: Rain Making Problem #12:  Curing Bad Sales Habits</title>
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		<title>By: Ford Harding</title>
		<link>http://www.hardingco.com/blog/2009/03/18/rain-making-problem-12-curing-bad-sales-habits/comment-page-1/#comment-21696</link>
		<dc:creator>Ford Harding</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 10:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>DG
When I feel rushed my fast talking gets worse.  You seem to reac better to that pressure than I do.  I am already quickstepping when the tempo picks up.

Your reminder to prepare a script--one not to be read in front of the client, but spoken approximately from memory--and then to practice is something we all need to hear repeatedly.

Thanks for the comment
Ford Harding</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>DG<br />
When I feel rushed my fast talking gets worse.  You seem to reac better to that pressure than I do.  I am already quickstepping when the tempo picks up.</p>
<p>Your reminder to prepare a script&#8211;one not to be read in front of the client, but spoken approximately from memory&#8211;and then to practice is something we all need to hear repeatedly.</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment<br />
Ford Harding</p>
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		<title>By: DG</title>
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		<dc:creator>DG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2009 03:48:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was reminded the other day in the midst of a presentation the occasional Asset that is fast talking when, as a result of a series of client-interruptions that put us behind schedule (it is their privilege to interrupt) they asked that we go thru the end fast - and, ta-da, the tempo picked up, we spoke fast, crisp, collected, they perked up with the new intensity and we roared into a very successful finish. 

A long way of saying: speaking fast is sometimes required, and like all things, in measured doses makes a presentation more interesting. My sense is that the trick is not so much slowing the entire delivery down, as much as knowing the appropriate times &amp; ways in which to modulate it (ala music). Particularly when slides are involved, I find slow/long winded talking a more frequent offense...  

Which brings us too enthusiasm &amp; too much talking: having spent some time in theater, I can say that a script &amp; a stopwatch are your best friends. I&#039;ve never seen enthusiasm on its own be a liability, but running out of time because you&#039;re saying too many words (or talking too slow!) can be a huge problem. Practice what you&#039;re going to say beforehand against a clock; if you&#039;re presenting with slides, set up an auto-advance to get you thru in the targeted time &amp; work against that (you can then modulate later); get someone else (fairly ruthless!) to run the presentation while you talk; videotape yourself; don&#039;t be afraid of the pregnant pause.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was reminded the other day in the midst of a presentation the occasional Asset that is fast talking when, as a result of a series of client-interruptions that put us behind schedule (it is their privilege to interrupt) they asked that we go thru the end fast &#8211; and, ta-da, the tempo picked up, we spoke fast, crisp, collected, they perked up with the new intensity and we roared into a very successful finish. </p>
<p>A long way of saying: speaking fast is sometimes required, and like all things, in measured doses makes a presentation more interesting. My sense is that the trick is not so much slowing the entire delivery down, as much as knowing the appropriate times &amp; ways in which to modulate it (ala music). Particularly when slides are involved, I find slow/long winded talking a more frequent offense&#8230;  </p>
<p>Which brings us too enthusiasm &amp; too much talking: having spent some time in theater, I can say that a script &amp; a stopwatch are your best friends. I&#8217;ve never seen enthusiasm on its own be a liability, but running out of time because you&#8217;re saying too many words (or talking too slow!) can be a huge problem. Practice what you&#8217;re going to say beforehand against a clock; if you&#8217;re presenting with slides, set up an auto-advance to get you thru in the targeted time &amp; work against that (you can then modulate later); get someone else (fairly ruthless!) to run the presentation while you talk; videotape yourself; don&#8217;t be afraid of the pregnant pause.</p>
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		<title>By: Ford Harding</title>
		<link>http://www.hardingco.com/blog/2009/03/18/rain-making-problem-12-curing-bad-sales-habits/comment-page-1/#comment-21649</link>
		<dc:creator>Ford Harding</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 11:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ian:

Sims Wyeth&#039;s article is up to his usual high standards and well worth a fast-talkers attention.  Thanks.

Does anyone have a suggestion for Ian, whose enthusiasm leads him to talk too much?

Ford Harding</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ian:</p>
<p>Sims Wyeth&#8217;s article is up to his usual high standards and well worth a fast-talkers attention.  Thanks.</p>
<p>Does anyone have a suggestion for Ian, whose enthusiasm leads him to talk too much?</p>
<p>Ford Harding</p>
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		<title>By: Ian Brodie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian Brodie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 22:35:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ford,

Sims Wyeth has some pointers on learning to speak more slowly in one of his newsletters: &lt;a href=&quot;http://simswyeth.com/newsletter/hsp-price-of.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://simswyeth.com/newsletter/hsp-price-of.html&lt;/a&gt; (along with some evidence on the impact of talking too fast).

Personally, my bad habit is overenthusiasm - which tends to lead to a tendency to talk too much.

Ian</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ford,</p>
<p>Sims Wyeth has some pointers on learning to speak more slowly in one of his newsletters: <a href="http://simswyeth.com/newsletter/hsp-price-of.html" rel="nofollow">http://simswyeth.com/newsletter/hsp-price-of.html</a> (along with some evidence on the impact of talking too fast).</p>
<p>Personally, my bad habit is overenthusiasm &#8211; which tends to lead to a tendency to talk too much.</p>
<p>Ian</p>
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		<title>By: Ford Harding</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ford Harding</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:31:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David and Clifton

I will try both of these techniques.  Clifton, I think you are saying that a listener can absorb fast speech, if it is broken into short segments with brief pauses between them.  I will try it.

Ford Harding</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David and Clifton</p>
<p>I will try both of these techniques.  Clifton, I think you are saying that a listener can absorb fast speech, if it is broken into short segments with brief pauses between them.  I will try it.</p>
<p>Ford Harding</p>
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		<title>By: clifton warren</title>
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		<dc:creator>clifton warren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:35:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stop talking so fast -  pause for 2-3 seconds to give a person time to digest what you have said</description>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:02:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was taught to imagine myself explaining something to my grandmother or grandfather (smart &amp; comands respect, but might not listen quickly). This will force you to choose common/familiar words, and speak slowly -- but with a genuine respect that has no condescention.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was taught to imagine myself explaining something to my grandmother or grandfather (smart &amp; comands respect, but might not listen quickly). This will force you to choose common/familiar words, and speak slowly &#8212; but with a genuine respect that has no condescention.</p>
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