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	<title>Comments on: How to Ask for a Referral</title>
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		<title>By: Mac</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mac</dc:creator>
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		<description>Ford, as Ian said, an excellent list.

Having recently blogged about &lt;a HREF=&quot;http://clientonomy.com/how-to-get-referrals&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;how to get more referrals&lt;/a&gt; i then looked around the internet for more resources. Thankfully that led me to your blog. Glad I found it.

I particularly like your tip on providing language that your client might use when making a referral.

Thanks again for your post, my readers wil appreciate it, Mac.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ford, as Ian said, an excellent list.</p>
<p>Having recently blogged about <a HREF="http://clientonomy.com/how-to-get-referrals" rel="nofollow">how to get more referrals</a> i then looked around the internet for more resources. Thankfully that led me to your blog. Glad I found it.</p>
<p>I particularly like your tip on providing language that your client might use when making a referral.</p>
<p>Thanks again for your post, my readers wil appreciate it, Mac.</p>
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		<title>By: Ford Harding</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ford Harding</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 14:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ian

LinkedIn is hugely helpful when used as you suggest.

Ford Harding

*** For readers interested in more on referrals, I suggest going to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ianbrodie.com/strategy/referrals-youve-got-to-have-a-system/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Ian&#039;s post on the subject&lt;/a&gt;. ***</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ian</p>
<p>LinkedIn is hugely helpful when used as you suggest.</p>
<p>Ford Harding</p>
<p>*** For readers interested in more on referrals, I suggest going to <a href="http://www.ianbrodie.com/strategy/referrals-youve-got-to-have-a-system/" rel="nofollow">Ian&#8217;s post on the subject</a>. ***</p>
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		<title>By: Ian Brodie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian Brodie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 11:13:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Ford - great list.

One of the dilemmas of being specific, is the fear that if you ask for a specific company or person and they don&#039;t know them, then you get nothing. But if you&#039;re not specific enough, you get nothing too.

One solution to this is to use Linkedin to see who they know that you&#039;d be interested in a connection to (or vice versa - search for people you&#039;re interested in meeting and as for referrals from people you know who also know them on Linkedin).

I&#039;ll back up your point about asking for advice too - especially if you&#039;re a little uncertain of your relationship with the referrer and/or their relationship with the person you&#039;d like to be referred to. Asking &quot;if you were me, how would you go about making contact with XYZ?&quot; gives them the opportunity to offer to introduce you if they feel comfortable doing so, but also the ability to back out if they&#039;re not quite there yet without being embarrassed. That way you preserve your relationship with them.

Ian</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Ford &#8211; great list.</p>
<p>One of the dilemmas of being specific, is the fear that if you ask for a specific company or person and they don&#8217;t know them, then you get nothing. But if you&#8217;re not specific enough, you get nothing too.</p>
<p>One solution to this is to use Linkedin to see who they know that you&#8217;d be interested in a connection to (or vice versa &#8211; search for people you&#8217;re interested in meeting and as for referrals from people you know who also know them on Linkedin).</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll back up your point about asking for advice too &#8211; especially if you&#8217;re a little uncertain of your relationship with the referrer and/or their relationship with the person you&#8217;d like to be referred to. Asking &#8220;if you were me, how would you go about making contact with XYZ?&#8221; gives them the opportunity to offer to introduce you if they feel comfortable doing so, but also the ability to back out if they&#8217;re not quite there yet without being embarrassed. That way you preserve your relationship with them.</p>
<p>Ian</p>
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